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Gain control

I can’t even begin to tell you how true this statement is. 
For the past few days I have run into instances that have put me in this exact situation. Time and time again I fail at remaining strong and taking control over my own emotions and feelings. 

That one person that can tap into your psyche and f**** your shit all up. (Excuse my French) 

No more will I allow anyone to control my mental and emotional state when they are not doing anything for me. 

If you are not paying my bills, lifting me up , or providing me with support then I can not allow …… NO NO NO, I “WILL” not allow you to take me there. 

I will not allow you to bring me to a point of no return. 

I will not allow you to disrupt or disturb my soul.

I will not allow you to bring me down.

I will not allow your negative vibes nor energy in my presence.

I will not allow you to control my emotions because they are mine, and there are far more important people that deserve my emotions of joy and happiness.

I will not allow you to stress me out .

I am too strong! 

I am better at all that I do.

I am the bigger person.

I am me…… Just Simply AH

Overcoming Tribulations

Through life we get bombarded with unexpected troubles, weakness, pain, and loss; all in one word, “Tribulations.” Ā It’s as though you have reached a breaking point and cannot mend your self back together. But just as you feel broke, it is the very reason to know that anything that is broken can indeed be fixed, one way or another.

In order to pull through, you must have faith and hope. You must WANT to return as a whole. I know that it can be hard at times given that every situation is different and everyone deals with circumstances in their own way; but YOU ARE AS STRONG AS YOU WANT TO BE!

I believe that in life we struggle and we are presented with different tribulations in order to make us stronger and to prepare us for something greater. But if we are unable to overcome those different obstacles then we can not move forward to what lies ahead.Ā 

No matter your situation, No matter your pain, Know that weakness is not a trait of you, it is only a word that will attach itself to you as a weight. You have the power, and the strength to overcome. It all starts and ends with you….

Simply AH


For every action, there is a reaction……We all know this right?… So why is it that People do the things they do?

Hurting others for their selfish desires such as power, wealth, and pleasure. Not caring who or how they hurt someone and the damage they may have caused.

Truth is, It does hurt when you are mistreated, but don’t let your opponent know your weakness. Show them you are stronger and better than them in more ways than one. Revenge is never the key… trust and believe they will be handled by the one and only…. “KARMA” ………karma because aĀ person can only go on so long doing dirt before they get stuck in it…. And when the lies start rolling they are only digging their selves deeper and deeper with no way out.

So the next time you find your self a victim, just remember …… everything in the dark will always come to the light and reveal itself to you. Just be strong and live, laugh ,love.

Stay Positive

Someone close, reached out to me today. Her heart full of Worry, and mind roaming of uncertain thoughts…….

I know times get tough, lord knows we have all been there. You come to a point in your life when you feel like nothing wants to go right. Every time you take one step forward, you feel like you get knocked back 10 steps. As I have said time and time again ; You must get through the storm inorder to see some sunshine.Ā 

When all else fails, never loose your faith. Look at the brighter picture, You ARE HERE! Everything will work out for you when the timing is right. Have patience and know that god has a plan for you, You may have gotten lost along the path but he is there to guide you in the direction you need to go. You will always be in my prayers!Image Stay focus, Stay positive, and most of all Live , Laugh , Love! Ā 


Who gives the right for people to judge others??…. You never truly know what a person may be going through in there life. I sit back and just listen to how others can downgrade another person, but have you ever asked yourself… What is that person going through? There is a reason behind everything and everyone. You could be looking across the room at someone and say ” omg, they look so run down and drunk, and why does he keep looking at me” …. But this very man, could have just lost his job, and maybe even his family. Bottom Line is, Judgment is very cruel, so the next time you see someone that doesn’t match your ideal standards, just remember …. You never know what a person has gone through. So think twice about what you say.