Understanding Parents

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We have all been to the point where we just don’t understand our parents; let alone them trying to understand us, but now that I am older with kids of my own, I understand.

I am the oldest of 2 brothers. I have been listening to them complain constantly……

One of them expects everything to be handed to him, and gets mad when it’s not.                                                                         The other Thinks his father is too hard on him and always Nags at him.

Well Guess what? There is a reason for His Madness!

The way I see it is He just wants you both to Grow into Mature hard working men that depend on yourselves rather than others.

He wants you be independent rather than dependent on others.

He wants you to Be more than just a statistic, and actually make a difference.

He doesn’t just hand you everything because he want you to know what it feels like to work for what you want and need.

He wants you to be better than he was.

He wants you to Know the struggle before you ACTUALLY struggle.

Just look at the bigger picture and realize that there is more to it than what meets the eye. Our parent or parents Push us so we can strive in this Screwed Up society. 

They just want us to be prepared and able to take on anything that may come our way.

You don’t see it now but trust me, eventually you will and when you do, I’m going to be right there to tell you I told you so and there is always a reason for the Madness!

 

 

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