My Random thoughts: Women have it tough

As women we go through so much to take care of ourselves, I mean soooooo much. 

We go through a lot at trying to make ourselves feel comfortable in the skin we are in. I mean lets be honest , the guys have it too easy ( slightly an understatement)  

With men, they only thing they have to beautify is the hair on their face and head, which is nothing but a simple cut without a second thought. They can throw on some gym shorts and a white tee and be perfect! 

Men: Yeah man, I just need the sides cleaned up a bit and just a fresh line up. And let’s shape up the beard.

And another, 

This time I’m just want you to cut it all down for me, and clean my face up.  I’m going to rock with the baby face. 

I mean really…..😒 it easy peasy with them. But hold up now!!! 

Women! Y’all dont hear me……WOMEN! We got to go the whole ten yards and then some to make sure we are up to par and confortable with the after math. 

Women: OMG , my hair is a mess! Ugh . It’s dull, shedding. What should I do??!  Mabe I will just get it cut. 

Hmm but how should I get it cut? I don’t want to take too much off, but then again … A short style would be kinda cute. 

Sigh, I think I want my hair longer. Mabe I will get some extensions. 

I wonder if my man will like my hair short? Hmm mabe I shouldn’t. Omg idk!!! 

Going out tonight, what am I going to wear. Oh! This dress is cute. No no it’s too short, it’s too tight, mabe some pants. 

Hmm what shoes pair well? This is cute…. No no , these look better. OMG I forgot I had these shoes, these are better.

My eyebrows are growing back and look too wild, they need to be waxed.

How should I do my make up, natural, dramatic. Hmm mabe just some mascara. Nooo that’s not enough.

Ugh I’m not feeling well today. Bad hair day hat!! Where are you. People are going to wonder why I have that hat on, let me try just a pony tail. No no, the hat. 

My nails need a serious fill, I am 2 weeks over due. What color do I want … Hmmmm should I do a design? Gel or acrylic. 

Ok, y’all get it right? It just doesn’t make any sense. But this shit is real. 😆

And no matter how much we tell ourselves. I love me for me and I don’t care what anyone else thinks. We still go through hell and high water to make sure we take care of ourselves. 

I wish decisions were so much easier for women. I mean after all, we do deserve it right…..? 

Relationships and Marriages



Every relationship requires work, and when I say that I don’t just mean from only one side, the work should be mutual. 

I sit and i observe others marriages and relationships, and true indeed, no relationship or marriage is perfect, but you have to work towards perfection. Nowadays people are calling on a divorce with in a split second or when they’ve had an argument.  But why? ….. You began the marriage on mutual circumstances and at one point you truly loved each other, and 9 times out of 10 you still do.   People will throw theyre marriage away as if it is something that can easily be replaced.

Instead of throwing your marriage away, work on it. Talk about it. Do you know that if couples just sit and talk about what is bothering one another with some understanding and patience, IT WILL WORK.

Marriage is sacred. Its one of a kind. Cherish it. Work on it. If the love is there, and the love is true, you will always be able to push through. Communicate, have patience, Love deeply, and always have understanding. IT will Work as long as you want it to…..

-Simply AH 

Energy Between Us


Face to face not exchanging any words, only energy…
Vibrations of, love, lust, desire, and sweetness traveling through the dense air.
Our thoughts being masked by our expressions.
Thump thump … Can you hear the pound, the beat of the heart…?
Strong and anxious, yearning………. Ready.
Thump thump…. Can u feel the thumping of the man … Banging… Bumping trying to get out of the boat..
Being overfload by the pure liquid of the sea.. Drowning in sweet bliss ..
Love being experienced, not only as an emotion of motionless, but as physical, physical as an action set forth by a reaction.
Our energies collide, unite and intwine in a sweet chanted melody, moving to its own beat, blurring out the background.
That moment … Us … As one


For every action, there is a reaction……We all know this right?… So why is it that People do the things they do?

Hurting others for their selfish desires such as power, wealth, and pleasure. Not caring who or how they hurt someone and the damage they may have caused.

Truth is, It does hurt when you are mistreated, but don’t let your opponent know your weakness. Show them you are stronger and better than them in more ways than one. Revenge is never the key… trust and believe they will be handled by the one and only…. “KARMA” ………karma because a person can only go on so long doing dirt before they get stuck in it…. And when the lies start rolling they are only digging their selves deeper and deeper with no way out.

So the next time you find your self a victim, just remember …… everything in the dark will always come to the light and reveal itself to you. Just be strong and live, laugh ,love.