30 Day Affirmation Challenge Day #18

Often times we tend to stress over things that are completely out of our control. 


Next time you are stressing out about something, ask yourself one question….

Can I do anything about it? 

If you can then stop complaining and make a change, but if you can not do anything about it then just let go and let God. Don’t put yourself in a situation trying to analysze something that is out of your control. 

Stress is a silent killer, it will attack you mentally, emotionally, and physically and you never even notice that stress is taking place. 

From this point on always ask yourself one simple question when you find yourself in stressful situation…..

Can I do anything about it? 


30 Day Affirmation Challenge Day #17

Look how far we have came! Do you feel any different? Are the affirmations helping you become a better version of yourself. I do hope so. 

For me, it’s a journey and one thus far I have definitely enjoyed. It has been all a challenge as well because at times I doubt myself , I let fear step in, and I allow anxiety to take over. But with the daily affirmations it helps me to re adjust myself and thought process in order to keep me on the right track to having the best day possible! 

So today my Affirmation leans towards strength. Having the strength to keep fighting and pushing through whatever battle you may be going through. The strength is already within you, just Speak it, believe it, and it WILL manifest. 


Relationships and Marriages

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Every relationship requires work, and when I say that I don’t just mean from only one side, the work should be mutual. 

I sit and i observe others marriages and relationships, and true indeed, no relationship or marriage is perfect, but you have to work towards perfection. Nowadays people are calling on a divorce with in a split second or when they’ve had an argument.  But why? ….. You began the marriage on mutual circumstances and at one point you truly loved each other, and 9 times out of 10 you still do.   People will throw theyre marriage away as if it is something that can easily be replaced.

Instead of throwing your marriage away, work on it. Talk about it. Do you know that if couples just sit and talk about what is bothering one another with some understanding and patience, IT WILL WORK.

Marriage is sacred. Its one of a kind. Cherish it. Work on it. If the love is there, and the love is true, you will always be able to push through. Communicate, have patience, Love deeply, and always have understanding. IT will Work as long as you want it to…..

-Simply AH 

DARKNESS REVEALED

For every action, there is a reaction……We all know this right?… So why is it that People do the things they do?

Hurting others for their selfish desires such as power, wealth, and pleasure. Not caring who or how they hurt someone and the damage they may have caused.

Truth is, It does hurt when you are mistreated, but don’t let your opponent know your weakness. Show them you are stronger and better than them in more ways than one. Revenge is never the key… trust and believe they will be handled by the one and only…. “KARMA” ………karma because a person can only go on so long doing dirt before they get stuck in it…. And when the lies start rolling they are only digging their selves deeper and deeper with no way out.

So the next time you find your self a victim, just remember …… everything in the dark will always come to the light and reveal itself to you. Just be strong and live, laugh ,love.

Stay Positive

Someone close, reached out to me today. Her heart full of Worry, and mind roaming of uncertain thoughts…….

I know times get tough, lord knows we have all been there. You come to a point in your life when you feel like nothing wants to go right. Every time you take one step forward, you feel like you get knocked back 10 steps. As I have said time and time again ; You must get through the storm inorder to see some sunshine. 

When all else fails, never loose your faith. Look at the brighter picture, You ARE HERE! Everything will work out for you when the timing is right. Have patience and know that god has a plan for you, You may have gotten lost along the path but he is there to guide you in the direction you need to go. You will always be in my prayers!Image Stay focus, Stay positive, and most of all Live , Laugh , Love!  

Love Yourself

We all have had a moment in our lives when someone has hurt us by what they said, how they treated you, how they looked at you….. But why should it matter? We are who we are and we are going to be who we want to be. Never live your life by the hurtful names people may have called you. You are better than that! You are stronger than that! Love your self for who YOU are and who YOU want to be…. In order to be strong ; you had to be weak.. and in order to move on and become greater; you have to be strong.Image