Be of Spirit

Relationships and Marriages



Every relationship requires work, and when I say that I don’t just mean from only one side, the work should be mutual. 

I sit and i observe others marriages and relationships, and true indeed, no relationship or marriage is perfect, but you have to work towards perfection. Nowadays people are calling on a divorce with in a split second or when they’ve had an argument.  But why? ….. You began the marriage on mutual circumstances and at one point you truly loved each other, and 9 times out of 10 you still do.   People will throw theyre marriage away as if it is something that can easily be replaced.

Instead of throwing your marriage away, work on it. Talk about it. Do you know that if couples just sit and talk about what is bothering one another with some understanding and patience, IT WILL WORK.

Marriage is sacred. Its one of a kind. Cherish it. Work on it. If the love is there, and the love is true, you will always be able to push through. Communicate, have patience, Love deeply, and always have understanding. IT will Work as long as you want it to…..

-Simply AH 

You Don’t Want it Bad Enough

True story..
I was at the car dealership looking at new vehicles, and I was looking at a 2015 suburban. A guy came up to me and said, ” you getting a new vehicle?” I told him no, I can’t afford it he said ” you don’t want it bad enough. ”

Well… I thought about what he said and that small Sentence had so much meaning to it.


Well putting thought in to it as I do everything else, that speaks truth into so many different situations. We can all have anything we want, anything at all, all we have to do is want it bad enough , to put enough effort and push into it and it is ours. Don’t stop and think that you cant have something, because the price is too high, your not pretty enough, you don’t have experience,so on and so forth. The sky is the limit and if you want it bad enough you can do it, you can have and you WILL achieve! -Simply AH

True Love


Often time’s people wander what true love is. But honestly there is no set definition to love.

I believe love is all about what you want it to be.

Some people tend to base true love off of others relationships, not realizing that every relationship is different just as we are different as people.

The love that you call “True” holds its own unique quality and it’s what makes your love extraordinary!

It’s all about knowing what you want, and finding someone compatible to your needs.

For me, True love is one that can understand you in every way imaginable. Someone that can be your strength when you are weak, your encouragement when in doubt, your happy when your sad, you’re medicine when you’re sick, your drug when you need your fix, the Clyde to your bonnie, (or the other way around) or even the Romeo to your Juliet.

True love has no limits.

True love is No fairytale. Where you have your up’s there will be downs. It is just up to you to mend the broken pieces, and learn to work with each other and pull through.

True love is based on commitment, communication, trust, respect, and just giving your all equally.

So what does true love mean to you?